CLclevermike
Coach57,555 posts
CLclevermikeCoach57,555 posts
27 Feb 2016, 21:06#2
Seb
I listened to the song you posted - really outstanding.
You said your wife's mother has cancer - how is she doing? One can only say I hope and pray for the best and that the cancer will go into remission.
I am still looking forward to your visit to Riversdale in April.
MOMozart
Captain49,914 posts
MOMozartCaptain49,914 posts
28 Feb 2016, 05:47#3
Interesting comments on the Donbass Russians, you won't read that in the Economist. All the best to Elena and her mom.
JWJust_win
Captain18,570 posts
JWJust_winCaptain18,570 posts
28 Feb 2016, 08:55#4
Sorry to hear about your wife's mother's cancer Seb. I wish her and her family the very best.
My wife has "incurable" cancer & has had this for three years now. It is a tough disease to deal with. We also have this international dimension in that we live in Poland and travel to the US for scans and treatment.
Our Russian daughter in law made us realize the Russians (at least the ones in her family) see family as being even more critical than we do. It is the same in Poland. Someone explained to me that because of political oppression and suspicion, plus hard economic times the family unit became critical for people to survive.
I am not surprised about the Don bas Russians. People are quickly categorized as different and even inferior. History shows us this and also shows it can have very dire consequences.
MOMozart
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MOMozartCaptain49,914 posts
28 Feb 2016, 18:56#5
That sounds very tough JW, your good spirits and sense of humour in the light of those challenges, does you great credit.
CLclevermike
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CLclevermikeCoach57,555 posts
28 Feb 2016, 19:17#6
JW
Mozart spoke for me in this case as well. I support his sentiments fully.
JWJust_win
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JWJust_winCaptain18,570 posts
28 Feb 2016, 19:20#7
Thanks Mozart, this forum is fun & entertainment & helped pass many a weary hour.
PS thanks CleverMike. I don't want this to turn into a sob story. I felt I had to say something as Seb & his wife are going through it. The best support any of us can have is the fun & games on this site.
GEgeneraltit
Pro3,164 posts
29 Feb 2016, 07:38#8
Thank you Mike,Dr Win and Moz for your thoughts...my mother in law,Lyudmila had cancer but this was nipped in the bud...however she developed extreme hypertension and bad heart condition.
Then if this not enough she slipped on black ice and fractured her hip bone...and can't undergo hip surgery/replacement 'cause her heart wouldn't allow it...she is a cripple and hobbles around with a walker...she is going down fast but Russians are resilient.
A heart breaking ordeal...she cannot look after herself...Dmitri her husband hardly helps and disappears at week-ends to Dacha...in the warmer months...not now.
It's very hard...since the fall of the USSR there are very scant facilities for folk like this.
She cannot and won't board an aircraft...
We are taking huge strain but Elena is a very good and strong character...I really marvel about her.
Mike I'm not too certain if we will go to Kleinmond/Herma nus in April but I hope it's possible...if not maybe later.
JWJust_win
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JWJust_winCaptain18,570 posts
29 Feb 2016, 08:09#9
Seb, your poor mother in law is really having a tough time of it. She is lucky to have such a caring daughter and son in law. Her husband sounds like a real jerk.
I hope she can at least be made comfortable & I am sure having your wife there with her gives her some happiness. Amazingly I have seen people happy in the most dire times, sometimes it simply defies logic. I hope it is the case for your mother in law.